Thanks guys! It's so nice to see you guys post here, I really appreciate it.

I'll respond in detail later but I'm out the door to drop DD off at school and then drive to work. STBXW sent me an email last night:

"If it's ok with you can I stop by tomorrow and pick up some things? I wanted to get an Easter basket from the attic, some kitchen stuff and baking supplies, some dresses for DD cause she says there aren't good ones here and my sewing machine."

Should respond with "yeah sure, no problem" or "you don't have to ask me, you have the key" or "fine, it's your house too". I'm leaning towards the first one.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again