Feel like I am rambling on to myself, but here goes anyway......
Just had the 'talk' with my local friend about gathering intel on the A. What a rocky conversation that was....!
First, I had to sit through well-meaning comments (like "I wish you'd just move on so you can enjoy your pregnancy"...arrrrrrrrghh, talk about trying to keep a DB'er down!) & then him saying he didn't think he could do it without being upfront that question was coming from me (dear lord NO!).

I really felt like I used up a lot of friendship units, but he did say he willing to give it a shot and put the "Are you still involved with the OW?" Q to WAH this week.