I see some of your point Kim but since you started this thread, I'll ask you, what's the point of people getting married then? Just for financial purposes with some sex and shared eating experiences thrown in the mix?
Are wants & needs bad?
Human nature dictates that we want what we don't have. We either acknowledge this and deal with it or deal with the problems associated with not acknowledging this.
Is wanting something bad?
If you want something from your spouse and they're unwilling to give it to you, do you just stop wanting it? Do you keep asking for it 1000 times until the spouse finally agrees to give it?
Example: if a spouse wants alot of regular sex and the other spouse is too tired and not interested in sex anymore, isn't this a need or a want that is going unmet? Does this need or want go away?
