It was pretty bad OP - but you know what it was just a little too much for me. I could not keep sitting here with her texting and call her boyfriend. At some point enough is enough. Is she ill - yes. Will she come out of it - who knows. At this point she and I need some space and distance between us. I may offer to pay to set up an appt for her. I suspect thought that she will contact a L and go after me for everything. I will leave this in God's hand. I use to believe that he staying was the best for everyone and maybe it is best for the kids but I could not allow for this A to continue on with me sitting by and enabling it. I am still heated.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans