My H has not come out and asked me any questions about what I'm doing or where I'm going, but he's asked our kids questions about it. Sounds like you going on with your life has your H worried. Way to go with giving little detail of your vacation, keep the mystery up. Good job in putting him off as to coming to the house. Let the full consequences of his choices sink in. Most importantly, I'm glad you had fun with your D and her friend. It's our time now!