look, put it this way, "it is wonderful that you are wanting to spend more time, but we need to keep consistency with baby. Eventually you will have another girlfriend and your time will be taken up again as it has in the past, so lets keep this as consistent as possible, otherwise it will really hurt baby in the future."
idk, I'm thinking something has to be said. unless you think you can handle this, or you think your D won't be hurt when he starts coming around less.
in regards to the pool? I would say have him do it, if you think he has the ability. gosh, he owes you, not you owe him.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
