I've been thinking in the back of my mind about my conversations with my STBXW. I've been very short and to the point and could easily be read as if I'm mad. I know there's a fine line between the two so maybe I need to say thanks and please more or a few LOLs in there or something.
yes there is a fine line, but IMHO, you always want to be polite. and sound happy and content with your life. because sounding unhappy doesn't get you anywhere.
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DB'ing is about creating an atmosphere where reconciliation can take place, but it is not a cure and there more stories of failure here than success because, in spite of what Ms. Weiner-Davis says, it is NOT possible for one person to save a marriage.
OF, why would you say that? it is SO possible. I know a few of us that have. I totally agree with what you said after that though, and I'm so sorry that your M was not saved (right now...you never know what may happen down the road), but Michelle did say it is not guaranteed. it definitely is something the other person has to choose as well, but DBing gives us the absolute best chance at saving our M. I never would have believed it, if it hadn't happened to me.
Romeo, I am glad you voiced your opinion about the schedule with DD. good job. and you left it an open question so that it wasn't just YOU planning it, as you mentioned she never liked.
oh, and great job biking, and your list of GAL activities are great! definitely get the motorcycle out, just wear the helmet and drive smart. was it she that thought it was dangerous? or was that your choice?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
