Gardener and SR, I think you are on the right track. Though this issue is so sticky that it would require huge self-control for me to not get sucked into being defensive.
Should I push him for specifics (like how much he wants me to earn, etc.)?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
