Texted W and asked if she wanted to go out for dinner and if she wanted to talk. She called back and said that she was open to both so we went out to dinner and talked for about three hours. Great honest conversation which included that she still needs to see about the future with the OM. He is not M. He was D a few months ago. I'm trying to show her the new me and the only push back I really got was the fact that she thinks that I want to save the existing M. I told her that she feels the old M ended last April when she gave me the letter and I feel that the old M ended when we S back in Novemeber.

I told her that it is just semantics and that we are starting to get to know each other again. The new me and the new her and that whether the M ends legally in 3 months or not does not really make a difference. Brought up the subject of our ML at some point in the future and she said that she has been thinking about this but is not ready for it yet. Baby steps!

I plan on being patient and showing her the new me and the confident me who enjoys being with her and talking with her and listening to her. He BD is March 30 and we are scheduled to go to dinner and a concert that night. OW may get her in 3 months but I have her now and I am going to do everything I can to make her decision to leave very difficult.

I am even considering giving her the DR book at some point in the future. I'm sure most of you will NOT agree with this decision but I will monitor her and see how it goes.

Thanks,

Ken


Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs
S24 D21 D19
EA disc 6/09
2nd EA Fall 09
I move out 11/12/09
W and I switch 1/14/10
D Filed 3/17/10
W moves in with OM 6/8/10
D Final 6/21/10

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