Buffet, You are not alone. 8 months for me, and I feel that I am trying to help here. I am sure that some of my advice is wrong, but I can only hope that for every one bad piece I give, there are ten that are right. I can tell you that having been through it before, it does seem easier to see the reality of peoples true identity. I do know for a fact that I did help a friend see the reality of what his gf was up too when she was sneaking around on him. To me it was completely obvious, but I don't know that it would have been had I not been there myself. I guess I am just rambling to you, but know that you are not the first to have been there, and you will not be the last. But for those of us that have gone through infidelity, maybe the good thing to come from it is that we can help others. Shock
