Cl, Like I said you have a great attitude. I am getting better also. It is so hard to finely get the Picture in your mind that "(none of them having anything to do with me.)" And the only way they (our wives) can justify 'their problems" is when they can project them on us.IF WE LET THEM. Your ride in the car was a good example. YOU controlled your destiny. You could have started an argument. But Trust me some how it would have ended up being your fault. Same thing happened to me last night. I did get a little loud when she asked who was going to clean it up. “Apparently me" however I let it go and just comforted my son and cleaned things up. I could have started yelling at w also but I was in control... I’ll tell ya buddy. If our marriages don’t work out we are going to make one hell of a husband for someone in the future...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
