In my opinion, you're spending WAY too much time worrying about what your wife thinks about what people in the office think about what you think your wife thinks.
Time to GAL, and DETACH.
Puppy
Absolutely.
OIN, if your wife in the past has found you too controlling then you DEFINITELY need to follow this advice.
I am notcing that this pattern hasn't changed... and it must.
It's good to take temperature every day, but I just get the feeling you are watching her like a hawk.. that can't be good for her recovery...
The best way you can help her man is to give her some space, which means you need to give your mind some space too...
When you start focusing on something else more often she will likley start to feel a bit less trapped.
