Simplify. Simplify. "What do you propose?" or "What solution do you have in mind?" The fewer words the better. And don't react to his response. Be eady with an, "I'll give that some thought."
Agree with Gardener 100%. Let him do the talking, find out what he's thinking then give him a no-committment answer then discuss it with the lawyer/friends etc.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again