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Simplify. Simplify. "What do you propose?" or "What solution do you have in mind?" The fewer words the better. And don't react to his response. Be eady with an, "I'll give that some thought."


Agree with Gardener 100%. Let him do the talking, find out what he's thinking then give him a no-committment answer then discuss it with the lawyer/friends etc.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again