Yes, he sounds like quite the wad, and the SIL thing sounded kinda nice, once you got the preliminaries out of the way. I hope you end up with a nice celebration. As for the writing, you have nothing to lose. Same goes for the match dot com as well, when it's time it will just happen, I'm sure. I've had my hands full out here, will be in touch soon to re-connect. Goldey