Oh and in addition I will have to suffer the wrath of Khan and accusations of being "controlling" etc.
So??
Learn to focus on DOING THE RIGHT THING, instead of on "what will make her mad? How will her being mad make ME feel?"
Do that, and the rest falls into line.
My wife had a new cellphone within THREE HOURS of me cutting hers off. So what? I DID THE RIGHT THING. I was no longer paying for her to conduct her affair right under my nose, and I GAINED HER RESPECT.
