Fig, that's good! btw, I thought she committed adultery? Couldn't you have sued for that cause?
Frank, I'm actually at a loss for words....sorry, happy, angry for you. There will be a lot of adjustments as you go forward. Have you lined up some place to go, yet?
Oh, and I think I've come up with a new mantra for myself - I am ninja-woman - DON'T hear me roar, just pick up your head on the way out!
FIB, I've been reading your thread since I came to this board a year or so ago. I have gleaned some good advice, and gained some good insight as a result of reading your posts. Thank you for that. Sorry that you've had to go through the hell that you have. You've had it as rough as anybody I'm aware of...although it could always be worse. She could have gutted you and the kids from crotch to eyeball with a Ka-Bar! You are stronger than you know, and I can relate to a lot of the feelings that you have. Good things for you and your kids.
Sincerily, antlers
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I like what antlers said. Although, I've heard myself from a to-be-attorney -- I didn't hire him -- that some people like to rake them through the coals. Never could understand that phrase (or frame-of-thought). I guess I have a lot to learn.
Take care of yourself, and be good to your soul.
poet
p.s. I can't believe I'm putting this out there for all to see. Ugh! Your begging rang true here too. I never really begged, just got thrown off onto the floor a time or two. Thought it was part of being married. Never had a clue I was ever being disresptected. boo hoo. Poor me. (No, not feeling self-pity anymore, just throwing it in there for effect.)
Donna - I think you missed the meaning of ninja-woman.
We were talking about my new boyfriend earlier, and how he has mad ninja skills in the bedroom. And FIB decided he needed to find him a woman with similar mad ninja skills.
Donna - I think you missed the meaning of ninja-woman.
We were talking about my new boyfriend earlier, and how he has mad ninja skills in the bedroom. And FIB decided he needed to find him a woman with similar mad ninja skills.
Oh man, mad ninja skills in the bedroom. (((sigh...)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
