How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

When I think about it I have heard her say far worse things to me in the past 9 weeks and after things still seemed to have approved. Although she did say today to someone else after she heard I . "Watching" she has said directly to me in the past "I wish I could end this marriage sooner" , "there is nothing you can say or do, it's over" "don't you understand there is no future" , "I am just co-existing until I can leave" , after all that she has yet to leave and is not as nasty to me....so I will keep at it and hopefully more positive starts to happen