Yeah I got that from reading your post that he doesn't get it. I kept thinking what an idiot. My wife was pretty much in the same sitch as you. However, i never meant to treat her or make her feel that way. She just spent years not communicating it to me.

I have no problem working on myself or our sitch. my whole thing is just tell me, and now that you have just give me the time. i to wish she could find this sight and see other perspectives. I'm working really hard to make improvements.

I have 3 more long weeks left to go. I'm starting to get rally nervous because I don't know what I'm going to encounter when get home. I sure am looking forward to seeing my daughters, and spending time with them like I always have.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept