Gatsby,
I am far from an expert, but I think it's a positive sign that your WAH's has feelings of confusion!
Thank you for outlining why you need a divorce...but am I missing someting... can't you ask him for financial support WITHOUT getting a divorce?
From what you say, your WAH has a psychologically diagnosable condition. Why can't you wait?
Sorry for the question..but I'm trying to understand if there's a way around rushing this through.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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