Gatsby, I am far from an expert, but I think it's a positive sign that your WAH's has feelings of confusion! Thank you for outlining why you need a divorce...but am I missing someting... can't you ask him for financial support WITHOUT getting a divorce? From what you say, your WAH has a psychologically diagnosable condition. Why can't you wait? Sorry for the question..but I'm trying to understand if there's a way around rushing this through.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369