The first time he asks me to move cross-country with him it was with the promise of marriage. Now he wants me to move across the country AGAIN, and on far less. It's just absurd! But I can't talk to him about it. It's impossible. He loves me, he doesn't love me. He want's to separate, then claims he never said the word. He wants to work on the relationship, he doesn't want to work on the relationship. He's obviously a mess right now and I'm not sure he knows what he wants but I am not moving across the country without some sense of security! If he wants me to go with him he needs to get it together. But he's told me multiple times he only wants me to go so he can be near DS. THAT is not enough security for me. Plus, he can stay and be near DS. He can move near my family and be near DS. His job (current or the new one) doesn't require him to be in WA.
Another thing, he recently (like in the last month) started taking 3 different kinds of medication (for anxiety, panic attacks, social anxiety) and is drinking on them even though all 3 meds have warnings that advise not to. I've been wondering if the meds and/or drinking combo have something to do with this situation.
