Something I just thought of: If I do set boundries re OM. How could I get NC from her? They dont work in the same office but they do attend the same meetings quite regulary. Short of her changing jobs I dont see how this can be avoided.
Oh and can someone please give me comment on this:
Gnosis advised: Quote: You DO NOT confront her with the affair YET. You only get one chance at that. Confrontation and exposure if done incorrectly will work AGAINST you.
That statement got me thinking, is this the right time to bring OM up again? I haven't got any real proof that anything is going on other than seeing an sms and the photos of her with him at her sisters party. She will just dissmis my boundry by saying that there is nothing going on. Or will enforcing this boundry possibly make her think twice before she takes this A to a physical level (if she hasn't already)?
