I know I need legal advice. But what on earth would I say to him in the conversation? "Remember when I said that I'd work on helping get us out of debt? Well, I changed my mind". That would be a red flag to a bull. This is a huge issue in our M and I think he could get nasty about it. I'm totally reliant on him to pay our mortgage and give me money to pay the bills.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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