There are also several sites that deal exclusively with MLC that have members describing that when they came out of the MLC fog, they were happy that their LBS remained stable and unchanging because the MLC person is so confused.
Once the fantasy is over (if it is one in their mind) they look for some kind of stability. And in some cases the LBS is able to be that stability.
I see nothing wrong with this its basic DB'ing. However I see this as highly unlikely
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the MLC person "snaps out of it
It could happen if the timing is right and the person was ending their crisis but to think that someone just entering MLC is going to snap out of it seems unlikely to me.
Look at the science of this. The MLC'er has their hormones out of wack, they don't just magically snap back into place based on something that the LBS does or says. There are no tricks!
What is Virginia saying
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I just want to jump in here and remind you all that Divorce Busting is not a 'one size fits all' philosophy.
I agree with this! What works in one situation may not work in every sich.
My only point in my original post was to throw some caution to this thread. I think I have done that I will now sit back and watch, listen, and be quiet!
