How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Today is a loss indeed. My wife does not know that I know she had said this. She had not come forth herself about what 'somebody' had told her. I don't know who told her. My only guess would be that OMW said to OM that she had someone watching out for them and she may had said "so does he." Either OM said this to her or OM said something to someone else and it got back to her.

If I bring it up then she will feel even more so that I'm "watching her"

Later on as I was getting ready for work she walked up the stairs and walked past me then turned and said "what?" I said "nothing" then she said "you been acting weird all day" I replied "you came home from work early, sick, and I am just letting you relax".... I. Don't know