There is always that chance that she won't come back......but you cannot make her, and that's what I'm saying. It has to be a choice.....her choice.
When my H was trying to force me to say I loved him or force his attention on me or try to force me into any particular situation......I felt such resentment toward him. That is the WAW! The more the H tries to pull her....the harder she resists. Have you read anything on the board about "dropping the rope"?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
