Eric, you are not done...your journey has just really taken off. As for the comments she made to you, I'm not surprised by them at all. They are all typical of what is going through the mind of someone in depression and a crisis. You have to remember that she sees life in a very warped way than we do.
Why in heaven's name would you want her to have everything. Why would you hand over everything that you have worked so hard for? No, you do not do that.....you both are entitled to half of everything and as for the OM, screw him. Do not hand everything over to her on a silver platter....this may very well be what she's hoping that you will do.
Take a walk. beat the crap out of a pillow, do something constructive w/that anger, but do not hand over everything to her. Breathe!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
