Taking care of Goldey. I'm not sure I even know what that means. Here's what we know: I'm Co-Dependent. Big Time. Working the steps to recovery for 90 days now. Got the coin to prove it. Priceless. Taking meds, following the treatment plan as best I can, which means I've only missed one dose. Recognizing that I can't un-do what's been done. I can't spend a lot of time looking back. Quoting my good friend, "You can't un-ring a bell." What I can do: Live each day fully. Make it count. Take baby steps, sometimes hour by freakin' hour. You know what I mean? Eat off the good china. 'Cause you know what? You can't take it with you. Say no more often. Practice those healthy boundaries, while making new, healthier friends. And cherishing the old ones. Thanks again, DB'ers, one and all.