Why would H say it is OW1 to make you upset? Very immature and disrespectful. Really think about boundaries. Although H is getting closer to you, you need to have clear boundaries about how you want to be treated because it is very rude to treat you that way.
Glad he did come over, but it seems like it is less and less. I know you are really busy and waiting on the surgery, but watch the boundaries because you don't want to slip back into supporting his bad habits.
Have a good week! I hope it is less busy.
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