If she doesn't like what she sees, than thats on her. I just need to do my best to focus on me. Being away right now has me to focused on her, because of the unknowns of when I return
I completely get that. It HAS to be hard on you since you're so far away.
I wish your wife were on here too. My H needed to be here, as well.
BUT-nothing you or I can do about that. Yes I got harsh responses...and thank God. It brought me out of being-the-victim mode and forced me to work on ME.
I don't know your W or her sitch...but my sitch was at least similar in the way that I never voiced my opinion. Up until a year ago, I was pretty unaware I even HAD a voice....I played the doormat pretty well.
I'm pulling for you. If you can work on muting the what-if voices in your head - you will be SO much ahead of the game when you return home....BTW...when DO you get to go home?
