Hi Sweetie. So good to hear from you and you do sound like you are moving forward. Glad to hear you got a job even if it is not exactly the wages you were wanting, you will be close to your kids and I remember how hard it was when you were far away from them.
Hope you and the new lady friend can enjoy each other's company. You deserve to be happy and have a great woman in your life.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!