It's been a long time since December, hasn't it? I am so proud of you GW. You have come such a long way!
I was about to burst when you told about your W feeling guilty over you not getting the job/move.......and you allowed her to feel that without trying to fix things. You are applying what you've learned. Great job!
As I've told you in the past, it is important that she goes through these emotions of guilt, remorse, etc. It took me a long time and was in little stages. I think that is what it will be like for her also. She might not tell you that she wants to work on the M, but just start "doing"it.
I am concerned about this trip she's taking, but you cannot control that. You can continue to think & act smart and do not for a second believe she is out of the woods yet. Although, considering how she has been the last few months, things do sound a lot better.
I am so excited and hopeful about this M. If she does not meet with OM on this trip, I think you will be in piecing very soon. Just keep up your changes and don't backslide. Whenever a DBer has returned to the board, that is what they always say.....that reverted back to their old ways.
I'm so proud ofyou!!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
