All three of my kids had issues being dropped off at school. (Seriously, am I THAT cool? LOL) You really just have to make it a clean swift break. She's going to cry, but the longer you let her prolong the goodbye in both your presence, the harder it will be... Just distract her as soon as possible once Mom leaves (or you do, if she's crying going to Mom, too). Sucks, huh? I feel ya!
When my D18 was tiny, she would sob, and hold onto me. Then, I would cry. That helps!
HUGS, friend! A PB&J never hurts, either!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.