I just don't understand why he won't fight for you. What does he expect from you? You've done what he's asked - worked on those issues for yourself - and yet all he can say just "I don't want us to be over"! Argg. I'm just frustrated with you! Maybe just try to ask him for a straght forward answer then (or maybe you already have) saying, ok, you don't want us to be over, then what do you suggest we do? (and in his words, since you're "over controlling", then fine, give him the control for a minute). He doesn't want it to be over and you've put your heart and soul into trying to say this M, then he needs to suggest how he wants to save it then. It's probably just his possessiveness of you that he doesn't want to let you go, but if he truely cares, then he needs to put that into action!
Overall though, it's amazing to see how much stronger you are. I'm proud of you for standing up to your father in law. That must have been tough, but it's so good not to continue to allow that to be ok, especially in from of S. Maybe it will even get your mom or father in law thinking.
Just continue to to stay strong. I know how emotionally battering this is right now for you. Just continue doing what you know is right and hopefully there is some truth to H's words and he can do what is right as well.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
