Why Bo Peep doesn't work

[MrBond]

"My only caution is that this WILL NOT WORK FOR MLC. As long as you are sure that this is a WAS then you are correct. However the confusion factor is the key for MLC, if it is MLC then you will probably be getting a DIVORCE with these tactics."

That's not entirely true. I've personally seen cases where the MLC person "snaps out of it" and goes back to their spouse who was the more passive one. There are also several sites that deal exclusively with MLC that have members describing that when they came out of the MLC fog, they were happy that their LBS remained stable and unchanging because the MLC person is so confused.

Once the fantasy is over (if it is one in their mind) they look for some kind of stability. And in some cases the LBS is able to be that stability.