My only caution is that this WILL NOT WORK FOR MLC. As long as you are sure that this is a WAS then you are correct. However the confusion factor is the key for MLC, if it is MLC then you will probably be getting a DIVORCE with these tactics.
Is that the theory or are there some situations you can point to. I don't really watch the MLC forum, so I don't know.
I do recall one guy in Newcomers who got jolted out of his year and a half MLC when his wife got herself a man.