Right now I'm at that place where I see more and more positive changes but I definitely don't want to be overly enthusiastic: 1) because I don't want to scare her away like your H was doing, and 2) because I still want to protect myself.
I don't think she has been in touch with the OM at all. I think the biggest thing that surprised me was how casually she felt about planning his party a few weeks ago and planned to go to it. Thing is that when I asked her to watch the kids on that same day of the party, she said 'okay' right away. She didn't tell me she had plans or could only watch them a certain time.
At that time I was wondering if maybe, just maybe, a part of her was saying 'hey this isn't right'. But who knows?
The positive interactions are happening more and more and increasing in frequency, so that's a good sign. See below for what happened yesterday.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
