I really do appreciate all the advice from everyone so far. I am supposed to see my W tomorrow night and have atalk with her about how we are going to work things. She is going away for 2 days for business that next morning, and I am going to be staying at my house to look after the kids. I know it is a business trip as she sent me the schedule and communications from her work. What I dont know is if OM is going to conveniently be there at the same time. For my own sanity I will assume he is not. I was planning on discussing my boundries with her (OM and moving back home) I dont really have a plan put together yet on everything I want to discuss and how I want to say it. I am thinking of texting her and telling her I am not ready to have the discussion with her tomorrow and only want to do it when she gets back. She will be leaving for the airport directly from work so I can go to the house when she has left, avoiding any contact with her.
On fracesc's post "WAW and the law of attraction"
Gnosis advised:
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You DO NOT confront her with the affair YET. You only get one chance at that. Confrontation and exposure if done incorrectly will work AGAINST you.
That statement got me thinking, is this the right time to bring OM up again? I haven't got any real proof that anything is going on other than seeing an sms and the photos of her with him at her sisters party. She will just dissmis my boundry by saying that there is nothing going on. Or will enforcing this boundry possibly make her think twice before she takes this A to a physical level (if she hasn't already)?
