Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks for checking in Steve. So I guess I shouldn't even mention the C in a nice way? Just don't know when to try and reach out to her? This is frustrating and I know I am getting a taste of what she must have felt for the past two years. She seems so determined not to want to try, at least right now.

I hear what you're saying about being strong and attractive. I feel like that's what I've been doing. I don't bother her, don't react negatively to her, taking care of things, continuing to keep to my new changes, working two jobs, etc. I don't know what else I can do? Maybe she just needs to see it for an extended period of time.

I certainly don't think I have ot all figured out but I feel like at least I'm trying to learn and work on things I need to improve. I just would like my W to do the same. If she was willing, then this M could be saved.

How can I challenge her? I don't want to sound demanding to her. Any suggestions?

I don't want to take any steps backwards. Thanks for setting me straight Steve. It's just difficult for her to see the new me since we are separated.