The turning off the love, I agree that's the toughest thing, I'm stuck right there.
I don't pay what she's doing now any attention, shoot she had a garage sale and sold most of my clutter.
I didn't say anything.
Her divorce is going to be final in a couple wks, and I love her probably more now, than I did before, only because one I love her and 2 I know down deep she's hurting.
Jack said it's a choice to love, I don't know, I think it's a choice to let go, I don't know if it's a choice not to love, so looking for answers on that just like you.
Think the easiest part of detaching is just ignore it, just like if you're teen is giving you grief, that's what I'm doing. It's helping.