Why Bo Peep doesn't work

[pearlharbr]

And FWIW, I did consult a DB coach who told me to follow the "Bo Peep" approach. Even after I told her it was making me miserable. I lost my self respect and dignity trying to "be the better option" and ignore BF's affair. Meanwhile, BF escalated his affair and moved further away from me.

Only after I ditched the DB coach did I feel better, get my mojo back, took a tough stand, and turned things around.

Just because the advice is coming from a DB coach doesn't mean it will work for you.