The reason I suggested you send a message with the basics and ask her to reply or call for details, is the 10% chance you deem that this person is NOT OM's wife and/or the chance that OM has access to her email and/or FB account. I guess you would have to consider what, if any, the harm in sending the whole enchilada the first time could be. I would want her to have everything.
Originally Posted By: Fracesc
Do you think in that first approach I should ask her to keep this from her husband for now? (the fact that I contacted her the first time).
You can ask, and suggest that it might be in her be in her best interest to think and plan first, but once she has the info, be prepared for anything. Many people go off without thinking and confront immediately
