Originally Posted By: are you kidding
And don't you really ask for anything, you need to show you're independent and do not need his help.



I DO NOT ask for any help with anything. I really can do it all on my own, and do (I could give you plenty of examples)----and I have doubted that as a fault of mine too. If the man sees that the woman does NOT need him for anything doesn't that give him more of a reason, justification or approval for being gone???


So........is it uncommunicative to ignore the e-mail about the L? Should I forward her response to him, making sure the time and date are noted? Or do I just let my L contact him tomorrow?


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12