Puppy, I think helping Ken to be aware of the consequences of enablement is in order here?
Possibly. But after taking Sandi's advice and reading up on Ken's entire first thread, and adding to that how he's (non-) responded to this one, I really think none of it is going to matter much.
He's gotta "WANNA," or else we can't help him. And you can't MAKE someone, "wanna."