Now all I need is actual info on how to put together the 'package'. I have mostly emails and screen grabs I had some pictures of them having dinner (but I've miss placed my usb stick during the move! But anyway, the evidence in writing/email is far convincing I think. It was to me at least and i was on denial.


Then I'd also would like to know the actual sequence of events. Because most of the stuff (cancelling phone line, changing my paycheck to my personal account, etc) do take at least 3 to 4 days. And if they need to be synchronized
I need to act soon. (new phone bill starts after 31 March).

There's also this whole debate about the money. We've always said we'd take half and half. But apparently there's an interesting theory about me taking it all for the time being (not forever) as a security caution. My only worry with that is that her family will become incredibly upset at me and might even bring lawyers to this. I can't afford to lose her family. I need them to be on my side if anything.



Last edited by Fracesc; 03/21/10 05:40 PM.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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