ML, I guess it is best to not try to figure out what they are doing, tempting though it is. You may be right, maybe he is in still lala land.
And I guess we have to say that maybe the OP IS the love of their life or whatever--doesn't mean it will last or not last but maybe it was the best they could do, you know?
I am glad for your son that X reappeared and seems more together. That's probably the most important thing as significant damage can happen there.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D