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I don't know BH--he is so off in lala land that it could be anything or nothing. I keep my guard up, but for the most part, actions on his part have meant nothing and sometimes I think I am too paranoid.

Things that involve effort on his part seldom get done. After all, it took over two years for him to get around to following through with the divorce, and when he finally did, he didn't follow through with anything that involved any sort of additional work on his part.

That said, I suspect he doesn't much like the apt any more and maybe he will buy a house. Good luck with that as X really can't afford much on his own.

I would have to say that being neutral and dark seems to have elicited more response. I have firmer boundaries and am less willing to tolerate behavior that I used to put up with.

That said, I'm not trying to elicit response at this point as I have pretty much begun to see X as, well, an X.