Sounds good to me. Do you think in that first approach I should ask her to keep this from her husband for now? (the fact that I contacted her the first time).
I hear you on the Ask thing. I was trying to make it look as if the evidence is really punctual, not just I love you, kiss, kiss. But actual details of both of them, their lifes, they complain about her and me, again, very specific things. But I also I agree that's like giving her a script and she might not need one. She'll be pretty inspired to rant on her own maybe.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *