My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[Allen A]

Puppy, I think helping Ken to be aware of the consequences of enablement is in order here?

ken, most EA's become PA's.

If your wife divorces you and runs off with him, then you can't protect her anymore.

Less than 1% of divorce couples last long term. The result is someone cheats on someone else, or someone ends up depresseed and leaves again, domestic violence is not unheard of.

If this OM is willing to behave this way to your home, you, your family, and your wife, his integrity is in serious question.

You want your wife running off with someone like THAT ? You say you love her, but right now when you enable her, you are just loving YOURSELF and letting HER get MORE involved with someone who is 99% likley to just be USING her for SEX and will DISCARD her long term.

You think what YOU are doing when you allow her to cheat is loving HER?

It's not, its loving YOURSELF and what YOU get right NOW. Your WIFE is headed for SERIOUS trouble and you are HELPING OM to HURT her right now. The end result is your WIFE getting HURT when you give her that phone.