I actually debated letting this guy know what he's getting into but she has to deal with the consequences of her lies.
Put yourself in his shoes.
If you were going on a first date with someone and her ex-husband contacted you out of the blue to let you know that she is a lying cheater, what would you think?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
