Hey Awoken! Good morning! So glad to see you back posting again - I think everyone here has been very concerned about you! Sorry you've had such a rough week.
Originally Posted By: Awoken
Again, unlike previous months, I'm not really worried about what STBXW thinks about this.
Good for you for saying that! It's actually interestingly similar to something my psych told me at my appt with her on Friday. It was about the importance of getting to a place where you're not worrying about how your spouse is going to think and react to what you say, and tailoring what you do and say to that. Instead, she said to just look inside yourself to decide what you need to say, share and do, and go ahead and do it. That's the best way to respect and care for yourself. Don't know if that helps at all! But just thought I'd share it. Again, glad to see you back and I do hope the next few days will be better ones for you!
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
